As we grow up, we may find that the people around us who were friends with us no longer talk to us or even keep in touch. The people who are friendly with us may be our brothers, girlfriends, best friends, best friends, lovers, and so on. As we grow up and become more and more immersed in our own lives, we have become less concerned about the people we are always friendly with, as we used to be, and have become concerned only about being alive all the time. What used to be a time of greeting each other has become a time of not having anything to talk about.
We all seem to be too busy living and making the best of our lives.
In the past, I never worried about how bad my relationships with others would get, nor did I ever think it would get to the point of having no connection, but the reality is that I can't intervene in other people's lives or limit their steps.
I was 18 years old in that year more than a lot of feelings, in that moment I realized that the original time will really make the relationship fade, but also will bring out - a lot of parting, and even let me understand and other people's parting is how much I don't want to part with. At that time, I lamented the relentlessness of time, why should time make the relationship between us become so diluted.
I also asked myself, why do we have to go through such separation and reluctance? In the end, I came up with an answer that I can accept, and I hope you will read the end and use my answer as a suggestion so that you will not miss the past and stop moving forward.
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