The more I enjoy the solitude, the stronger I become
Don't be afraid to be alone. It's a powerful tool for your growth.
Loneliness means being away from people, and being away from people makes us lonely, but at the same time we are more able to create more opportunities for us to become strong. When we are alone and don't have to socialize, time separates us from the rest of the world, and with time we are able to add more value to ourselves than we would have been able to if we had always chosen to socialize.
In my experience, once we choose to be alone, time comes back to us and we have more time to be strong again.
With more time I did the following things:
1. know myself better
As I regained time, I used that time to learn what I wanted for myself and how I felt about certain things. As I started to learn more about myself I was more able to move forward because I knew more about what I liked and what I hated than I ever had before, I learned that I like to think about the many meanings of life, and I learned that I kind of like to write as well, I just kind of hate writing by hand, after all, it's faster to type.
2. Being more progressive
Of course, we can't get away from the crowd and then suddenly improve dramatically, and it doesn't happen in reality either. We all add value to ourselves and learn more skills in our own time, so that we can increase our competitiveness with other people in the society. I enjoy solitude because when I step out into the world, I realize that while socializing is important, solitude should not be left out and I will use my time alone to learn more ways to earn money. Although I haven't managed to suddenly become a millionaire like everyone else, I understand that I'm more advanced than I was before and I will be able to think about the future and my strengths.、
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