Do you enjoy being alone?
Why do we enjoy solitude, has anyone explored this one question? It has been said that people who are lonely mature, but it is actually because people mature that they choose to be lonely.
In fact, the reason for loneliness is very simple, for me to be alone can be far away from the hustle and bustle of the crowd, enjoy the purity of being alone, do not have to care about other people's views, you can feel more of the self, which is why I like to be alone.
Some people may think that alone is not boring? Honestly speaking, sometimes it is quite boring, but I believe most people still choose to be alone. These people enjoy solitude and the benefits it brings. Being alone they are able to get more time to do what they like, which can be studying, listening to songs, playing games, reading, self-discipline, fitness, and such they will be happy for it. Those who like to socialize will choose to continue to socialize, but those who don't will feel that socializing is a waste of time because there is no time to do what they like.
Lonely people will like peace and quiet, a peace and quiet that heals their soul. Socializing is essential in this day and age, but while socializing the mind can become so tired that it is physically and mentally exhausting. In the end, they will choose to be alone, lonely people do not have to think about how to accompany others to maintain relationships and do not always care about the feelings of others. They are more relaxed when they are alone.
Lonely people choose to be alone because they like to use the time alone to improve themselves to surpass others and themselves, and the sense of achievement after improving themselves can make them happy. They are more independent and can solve the difficulties in life by themselves. Relying on others to solve problems is actually the same as begging for help from others, and such begging will make people fall into exhaustion.
I also like solitude because I can feel that solitude can bring happiness. During the time of solitude, I choose to forget about socializing and communicate with myself to understand what I want, I don't want to follow others and not understand and pursue what I want. I also like to hide in my room to watch my favorite anime and learn the skills I want to learn, because only in this small space without the influence of other people and noise, my mind is also at peace.
I'm a proponent and not against socializing, there are naturally many benefits to socializing, but sometimes it's nice to mix in time for solitude and enjoy it, don't be afraid of solitude, know how to accept it yourself.
#Remember, think about life, marvel at life, and move on.